Foreplay Tips by Marie Clair.
Guys are you confused, clumsy, and don't know what to
do when it comes to Foreplay? Does your heart drop and you
hesitate at the mere mention of Foreplay? If so, then it's
time for a lesson in Foreplay!
As many of you have probably found out, most women consider
"Foreplay" a very important part of sex. And there
is very good reason for this. Our bodies don't react sexually
as fast as yours does. We need some warm up time to get
into the mood. While each woman is different as far as how
much foreplay she requires before she is sexually aroused,
studies have found that most women all like the same type
of foreplay. So based on that theory, and some of my own
experiences as well ;-) I've put together a list of "Foreplay
Tips".
Hugging
This is a great way to start off your sexual romp. Most
women love to be hugged. To be held tight by their lover.
This gives us a protective feeling and tells us you want
to be close to us. It's easy to do, just start by holding
your lover close and pressing her body against yours. While
hugging her lightly kiss her neck and shoulders.
Petting
While laying down run your hands lightly and softly up and
down, exploring the peek and valleys of her body. Some women
love to have this done to their neck, shoulders and back.
Others, like to have their buttocks gently massaged. And
yet others love their breasts softly caressed. This will
all depend on where your lover's erogenous zones are. If
you're both undressed gently kiss and lick these areas as
well. She'll be like putty in your hands, ready to be molded
in any way you want.
Kissing
It's important to start off slowly. Just a soft pressing
of your mouth against hers. No tongue to start. After a
few of these kisses slowly start to push your tongue out
just a little bit, hopefully enticing her to open her mouth.
As her mouth opens gently slide your tongue in a little
further. Then press your lips against hers a bit harder
and with a bit more passion. From there move to kissing
other parts of her body as well.
By this point your lover should be really turned on. If
you both still have your clothes on it's time to start removing
them - slowly. Start with her top and bra.
Caressing Her Breasts
Place your hand on her breast. Softly caress it. Use your
forefinger and thumb to gently squeeze her nipple. See how
erect it is. She is really turned on. Now stop and take
a moment to tell her how beautiful she is and how much she
is turning you on. Women want to be told this, and now would
be the perfect time. Then softly take her nipple into your
mouth, run your tongue around it's hardness. Use your hand
to softly caress her other breast.
What happens next will depend on you and your lover. But,
it's now time to explore her vagina. You can gently place
your hands between your lovers legs. If she is still wearing
panties gently rub her private area while still kissing
her body. Slowly move her panties to the side and gently
explore her clitoris. Very lightly rub her clit with your
fingers. Or, if you like you could go down on her using
your tongue to softly stimulate her clitoris. Either way,
that's up to you and your lover.
The important thing to remember about "Foreplay"
is that it should be done gradually. Slowly increase the
physical and emotional sensitivity. As the arousal mounts
you increase the stimulation bit by bit. By following these
simple "Foreplay Tips For Couples" you and your
partner will have the most erotic, but sensual love making
sessions ever.
Happy Foreplay!
Marie Clare
Relationship Consultant & Author
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